10 ways to answer the question, "Should I stay I should I go?"
Your emotional grey area is a precious caution sign.
If you’re asking, or have asked, or will ask yourself, “Should I stay or should I go?” Know that your self-doubt is a caution sign, and the balance of positive and negative are yours alone to measure.
No perceived relationship, job, philosophy, or held position is entirely helpful or entirely hurtful. But your scales constantly wobble toward the emotions that are prompted by the reality of your situation. We rationalize staying in the wrong places when we can’t imagine what a better place looks like.
TL;DR: Self-doubt is the budding bloom of honest awareness. Don’t waste time idling at a red light that will never change.